My husband’s favorite band, Emery, released an album called “You were never alone.” My husband got a poster with this album cover on it and I can remember the very day I opened it those words washed over me.
You were never alone. Alone.
Yuck. I hate that word and honestly avoid it most days. However, I’m on a new journey of inviting others in. Like letting a handful of ladies in to read my blog before I post it. Because I know for sure I cannot do this alone.
You know those people in your life you can ask anything of and they’ll help you. The ones you fight for and the ones that fight for you. The people who make you feel better after you are around them. They challenge you, but also love you. Those are the people we need to let speak over us.
God created us to be together, in unity. Sin broke that, but Jesus restored it. And He wants to continue to restore that unity through us. For us to be a part of His restoration.
I’m pretty selfish, especially as a mom. I feel like my time is already so split that I withhold from friends sometimes because I’m not sure I’ll have the energy to be with them. Anyone else?
Yesterday, I’m cleaning for our connect group buzzing around picking up toys and wiping down tables. My first reaction is to immediately think this is too hard. Cleaning is a tough job. Taking care of my kids is enough to do. Which most days it is. But when Wednesdays roll around, it’s time to spread myself and allow God to use me. A clean house makes my husband more at ease. I can love on people instead of thinking about the things I should have gotten done. So I clean. Hopefully, next week I’ll remind myself of this.
See it takes work to be with people. But that joy at the end of the night when we are all sitting around eating dessert and laughing and listening to each others stories is enough. That’s what I clean for. To be heard. To be seen. To be known by a group of college age students that mean so much to us.
Who are you letting in today?
I was reading through Thomas Merton “No Man is an Island” and I love this quote he gives by John Donne, “No man is an island, entire of itself, every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.” We need each other. So we can say to ourselves and others “You were never alone.”